Happiness…Love …The Perfect One; are some of the words that keep crossing everyone’s ears or minds every now and then. Everyone has their own definition and they are free to do so. I am here not to criticize their beliefs, but just express mine too which may or may not reach others; however it still gives me a sense of satisfaction doing so. This is about my journey so far watching people and their lives. I am not a philosopher, neither have I read great people’s books; I am just one of those fish in the ocean trying to swim freely although the currents around did and will affect my course and so my thinking.
Some people say that love is about caring about the other person more than your life or giving everything that you can to the other person. I believe love can’t be defined; it can only be felt. Love is unique whether it is about a mother loving a child or a girl giving her heart to someone. It is all the same; the difference is the way you express it and so just like god it can take any form. You don’t find reasons to love someone but when you do love someone you can look for the reasons why or what you like about. I don’t believe in the perfect one, neither do I believe that you can only love once. Love is not a quantity that gets less if distributed. More you love, more it grows because love is all about finding happiness in other’s happiness. If you care about other’s happiness you would make sure not to do something that would upset other which would mean caring more than everything or doing everything than you can for their smile. And it’s not easy because nothing worth having in life comes easy, whether its happiness or love. We are not god, we are humans, we have our needs, expectation or requirements whatever you call it. Everyone has priorities, for some its their own expectations and for some its others’ happiness. You start loving someone when you choose latter which when not done creates problems, quarrels and hardships, heartbreaks leading to separation. It is when we start mixing our love and expectations together and everyone does, which maybe be wrong but “to err is human”. Love for someone can as a friendship or hatred because love and happiness are not goals or some eternal bliss, it’s a journey and no journey is perfect. Love is a journey and when you love someone you are not scared or the difficulties but you travel better when you face those difficulties and overcome them. The moment you stop the journey because of your selfish needs or fear is when you stop loving. This is why love is the strongest force in the world. Don’t forget, if you fail to overcome the difficulty doesn’t mean you didn’t love enough. As I said before it’s a journey, it has no end, your life ends not your love. But if you stop, that’s when you stop loving. Yes, you cannot make everyone happy in this world, and just like us our actions can never be perfect. They might hurt someone, again it doesn’t mean you didn’t love. If you tried your best, you loved and you keep trying to make a relationship better and better. This world is not perfect and no relationship is too. A relationship is a string, no string is perfect, it always have weak point. When relationship becomes tight, it tends to fall apart, but what is important is not to let it fall apart. Join the weak point with a knot. It will leave a mark and string won’t be same, but will be more strong and reliable. Don’t cry if string looks breaking, tie a knot and make it better. Remember, nothing is perfect in this world! It is up to us to make it perfect for us. Every relationship is based on love and this string has to be help from both ends to sustain it. You don’t need a reason to love , but you do need love as a reason to have a relationship and make it perfect.
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